I bathed this beautiful body in milk and gold dust. Celebrating femininity and enjoying ourselves, pampering ourselves, is far too often neglected, or never pursued at all. But why not? Why do we go out of our way to please on the outside, but neglect ourselves? We keep our bodies as fit and attractive as possible to be loved, to get attention, to be seen in general. We throw ourselves at men at a young age who want us with them for what we do for them. But they are not interested in our personalities. We entertain them with sophisticated art, drop our education and our aspirations for self-realization in a job and therefore independence. But then there is not much left of us. First we want to please him, then we take care of his children. But when the time comes when we have matured to the point where we finally wake up, all of a sudden, we have become stressed. We are frustrated and face the shards of our lives.
The dialogue between man and woman is now difficult to conduct. The man does not understand this “sudden” change. It was always good like this, why do you want to change everything now? Who are you? I don’t know you anymore.
But we are the creators of our own happiness. We have everything in our hands. Not to have time for him, because we are taking care of ourselves, is completely ok. Men do the same. Why do we love ourselves so little? Why do we hurt ourselves so much? The answer is to be found in the history of mankind. The role assignment of men and women goes back thousands of years. Even though our mothers try hard to raise us as independent and modern women, they give us this old role, typical of women, quite unnoticed and very subtly. Whether they want to or not. But if a young woman knows herself, she can cancel this out from the very beginning and, full of self-confidence, look at the world with unclouded eyes and face the man at eye level. We do not have to give up ourselves in order to be loved. The more a woman does for herself, the stronger she is, the more sex appeal she has! Man and woman are very different – that makes the game between them particularly beautiful – we have the same value. Viva la Vulva!
